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Divine With Zain & Yvonna

As in mid-november, I, Zain and Yvonna went to Divine at Bugis. Love the bar of how the design and theme of that place. We just chill and chat. Is been long since I met them and since they invited me so I just tagged along. You may though the price is high but actually is not. Average of $15++ and above.

Actually I dont mind coming back.

I'm Back Baby

Finally I'm back and I have seen the last post is about 8 months ago. Gosh, that is super long and I know many thought my blog dead. Sigh... This is the second time it blackout (in term of not active/dead) but I try to keep it active yea... Looking at my album I have many grandfather stories to tell you and let me look back, hmmmm

The stages that I gonna post in the future would be:

Workaholic In The Banking Industrial
Divine During Christmas
Alcoholic With Buddies
Mall & Beach Pub (Uniqlo & Coaster)
Makanan In JB
Zain Kota Tinngi Homestay
Boxing Day
Johnathan Birthday
Christmas Feast At Scan Hub
Pink Dancefloor
A Day In KL
Punggol Jetty & Makanan
Feast At JB
Chinese New Year At Scan Hub
A Visit At The Zoo
Nanda Facial Therapy
Hotel Dine
Farah, Faz & Nanda Birthday

Soon I gonna post once in every 3 to 4 days. See yea all...

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless — it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside of Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell.”

You’re in a relationship with someone whom you love and can’t see yourself being without him or her, but sometimes your eye tends to wander. You come to the realization that your mundane routine needs a little spicing up. How do you approach this difficult topic? You can’t just blatantly ask your partner for this type of arrangement; it’s all in the presentation and delivery. You need to gauge your relationship and figure out the best way to broach the topic.

An open relationship needs to be mutual, meaning each person has the ability to engage in mental and/or physical affairs with another person. You can’t declare an open relationship without discussing it with your partner — that is called cheating. There is no black and white when it comes to this arrangement. There are many things that need to be discussed before it can actually begin.

Are there certain nights of the week reserved for your sidepiece? Are weekends off limits? Is it kiss and tell or don’t ask don’t tell? How much time can you spend with the other people? How many other partners can you have at once? As you can see, this agreement brings along a lot of uncertainty.

The pitfall of this type of arrangement is the jealousy factor. It does not matter that both people are allowed to see other people; jealousy sometimes can be unavoidable. It’s natural to become jealous of another person who has your partner’s attention.

Long distance couples are more prone to have this discussion than other types of couples. The distance between two people can and most often does create sexual frustration. To solve this problem, these people may look to other options, which include hooking up with other people, in hopes of preventing a breakup.

So many romances end because one partner cheats, so wouldn’t an open relationship be a smart idea? Of course there will always be those who are 100% monogamous and have no issue staying faithful, but for the rest of the people out there, what’s left for them?

Of course, the argument is if you don’t want to be in a relationship, then don’t be in one. Nothing is black and white and neither is this discussion. Sometimes you will have someone you love and want to be with, but then there are those instances where you need a little variety. If you are upfront and honest with your partner, then are you really doing anything wrong? And, honestly, who cares about anyone’s opinions outside of yours and your partner’s?

Your relationship should be gone about in a manner that satisfies you and if this is what it takes to have a great relationship, then more power to you. When you behave in a way that contradicts tradition, people will always have something to say. It’s important to ignore petty judgments because you don’t need others’ opinions to make you happy.

Everyone is different and therefore has different wants that need to be fulfilled. Through connecting with your sexuality, you discover a sense of self. From there, your awareness can grow. Enlightenment comes through practicing self-awareness. Intimate relationships, regardless if they are monogamous or not, are fueled by a desire to feel complete, alive and sexual.

Be considerate of your partners and always use protection. As we all know, the more partners you have, the higher your risk for contracting an STD is. Safe sex is a requirement, not an option in this situation. It is disrespectful to your partners not to have safe sex and it’s risky for your own health. Condoms reduce the spread of STDs, but only if they are used correctly. Remember these aren’t the only items needed for safe sex.

10 Biggest Mistakes Made In Relationships

#10 Clinging Too Much
Everyone needs their own personal space. If you love your partner you should trust them enough to give them their space and not try to invade every second of their life. This isn't the case when you're married. Marriage is a blessing and after marriage you and your partner share the same life together. But when you're in a relationship, you can't suddenly take over their life unless it's a mutual decision. Don't make them feel suffocated and don't make them regret the decision of being with you.

#9 Being Jealous Of Each Other
Relationships should never have the element of jealousy involved. You love your partner, you are not supposed to be jealous if they have a better job than you or a better social circle than you. You are supposed to be their strength and make them bigger in life rather than complain about how you can't compete with them. It's not a competition. Your partner will do everything in their power to make you a stronger person and you should do the same.

#8 Listening To Others More Than Your Partner
Bringing a third person in the middle of your relationship won't always end well. If you are facing a problem with your partner and you start asking the world for help it will obviously create a lot of trust issues between you and your partner. Couples Therapy is different, they are trained professionals and their only job is to make things work between you two. But when it comes to friends, everyone will give you their own opinion and it might make your mind think in too many directions which leads to over-thinking. And we all know where over-thinking takes us.

#7 Leaving Arguments Unsolved
We've seen this happen a lot around us and it has happened to us as well. When an argument is left unsolved in the middle, it won't go away. It will keep growing and come out in the form of a huge fight which will eventually lead to break up. Whenever any problem arises, make sure you solve it then and there. If you forgive your partner's mistakes, forget their mistakes and never bring them up in future arguments, it will only mean you never forgave them in the first place.

#6 Taking It Too Easy
Some couples start off amazing and slowly lose the spark they had. It could be because they don't find each other as interesting as they did before, it could be because of someone else being in their mind, it could be because of a lot of reasons but it shouldn't happen in the first place. Keep the romance alive and be the same partner you were when you first fell in love with them. Keep the romance going and make the memories stronger.

#5 A Lot Of Giving And No Getting
I've seen a lot of relationships in which one of the two do as much as they can to make their partner happy while the partner forgets everything they did for them in the middle of every argument and every rocky phase. Relationships are all about give and take. If you don't cherish your partner for all the effort and time they spend on you, they won't be around for too long because someone else will make them feel appreciated. Start giving back, love them the way they love you or even more. Cherish them before it's too late.

#4 Not Letting Go Of The Past
Everyone has a past. It is wise to clear everything up even before getting into a relationship with someone to leave no room for doubts and assumptions later. Don't cling to your partner's past either, the past shouldn't matter to you. You love someone for who they are not the baggage they carry. If you start snooping on them, it will only make you see things you shouldn't have seen in the first place and it will break your partner's trust because it was the past. Live in the present and work for an amazing future.

#3 Assumptions
The word "assumption" actually makes me cringe. It is one of the scariest things to have in a relationship and it leads to nothing but a bad ending to a perfect story. Once you start assuming, you will make a habit of it and you will soon create an entire mountain of assumptions on your partner's shoulders. Stop assuming and start asking if there's anything you have doubts about. Relationships are built on trust, not assumptions. Just because they've made mistakes in the past doesn't mean you just assume they'll do it in the future.

#2 Faking Interests
When you love someone, you love them for who they are. You love each and every little thing they do because that's who they are. You try making them a better person by making their bad habits go away. But it doesn't mean you start pretending to like what they do just to make them smile. Faking your interests in them will only make matters worse for later. Tell them exactly how you feel about them, their social life, their friends, their family, because you don't fake in love if you mean it.

#1 Thinking Of Marriage As The Answer To Everything
Some couples tend to think marriage will end the issues they have brewing up between them. Marriage is one of the biggest moves in life and it changes lives. But it is not wise to take the step before knowing if it will last or not. Some couples tend to fight a lot, on a daily basis, and they think once they're married all of their problems will suddenly vanish. That's not the case, marry ONLY when you're sure of it and not just to save a dying relationship.

One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd. "I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends in the tomorrow), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.

My heart went out to him. So I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives."

He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!". There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.

I asked him if he wanted to play football on Saturday with me and my friends. He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him. And my friends thought the same of him.

Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, "Dang boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!" He just laughed and handed me half the books. Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors, we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was glad it wasn’t me having to get up there and speak.

Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys who really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I did and all the girls loved him! Boy, sometimes I was jealous. Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you’ll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "Thanks, "he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began. Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years, your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach…but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give him or her. I am going to tell you a story."

I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his mom wouldn’t have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. "Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his mom and dad looking at me smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize it’s depth. Never underestimate the power of you actions. With one small gesture you can change a person’s life.

8 Ways People Break Their Own Hearts

1. They choose safety instead.
Safe love is comfortable love, but we all know there are greater things. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with choosing safety, I’m just saying you’ll wake up one day realizing you robbed yourself of something extraordinary; something that was right in front of you all along.

2. They avoid the person they really love because they don’t want to get hurt again.
I am of the belief that the greatest loves we experience are the ones who do hurt us, the ones who meant enough that they have the ability to, the ones who uproot us and make us different, or just more ourselves than ever before. I believe that love is transformative, and that shying away from that is one of the greatest ways we sell ourselves short.

3. They close themselves off to the love they deserve.
Sometimes we meet people who are so absolutely wonderful that we can’t help but wonder why they would want anything to do with the likes of some ordinary person like us. But love is not a sport or a competition. There’s no hierarchy and there certainly isn’t any legitimate, but infamously perpetuated concept of “leagues:” the unwritten rules of who can and can’t be together.

4. They forget that the only love that really matters is what we have for ourselves.
Yeah, yeah, I’m sorry I had to go here, but there’s no way I could leave this out. That aforementioned brokenness that usually follows some sweeping passionate ecstatic bit of love is only the result of the fact that we needed someone else to fill us up. Something that, though challenging, we are capable of doing ourselves.

5. They fall into the trap of thinking that there will be nobody else who makes them feel the way that one person did.
When it comes to the bare end of things, the truth is that there are thousands of people in the world that you will be able to love, and whom will love you in return. You just haven’t met them. In fact, you run in circles around each other but stay within your lines, and so they never cross.

6. They get so caught up in the love they have that they neglect all the other wonderful things there are to enjoy.
Nothing should ever be your everything, unless you’re willing to take the risk of that leaving your life and not having anything.

7. They don’t love someone the way they should be loved.
Love is work. It’s dedication and time and commitment and we know these things are difficult in theory but we trick ourselves into believing we can maintain them, until something that honestly threatens them comes along. You are the one who will end up broken when you commit to the good and not the bad, and think that you’ve done the job right.

8. They rather their lives with excuses of why they shouldn’t choose love right now.
Look, people. It’s now or never. Enough with the “should be’s.” Just love who you love, and live on, and I was really close to saying “be yourself” until I realized I was quoting Macklemore. Anyway. The right love will come when you need it to, and it will help you fill the holes you’re worried won’t let you love someone. But the difference is, the right kind of love will help you fill them, it won’t do that for you. Let it, even though it’s scary, and even though you’re unsure. In the future, you’ll look back and realize you became better from the times you tried, and you’re still kicking yourself from the times you didn’t.

10 Steps To A Healtier Relationship

#10 Expectations
We all have a keen habit of expecting a lot from our partners, which is wrong. We should expect as much as they can give us. Keeping a firm grasp on expectations and keeping them close to reality is what makes a relationship strong and makes your partner more comfortable with you and happier to be with you because you don't burden them with stuff he/she has no control over.

#9 Cuddle More
It's one of the best features of a relationship. Cuddle your partner every chance you get. We are going to write an entirely separate article on cuddling because it has a lot of benefits. Be more intimate with each other, cuddle them, hug them, kiss them, be as romantic as you can with them. True love knows no bounds.

#8 Heart To Heart
Every couple goes through arguments and fights. We can't always agree on everything, we are human. It is wise to have a heart to heart after every bad patch you two go through. Just sit somewhere quiet and talk about what happened. Don't go to your friends for help and don't let them go to their's. You are supposed to live a life together you should be able to fix problems using each other not everyone else in the world. Having a heart to heart conversation with your lover will guarantee a long-lasting and loving relationship.

#7 Be There In The Dark Times
Love isn't just about being there for each other when you're both happy, it's about being each other's support and strength when everything isn't going well. If your partner is going through a dark phase, a rough patch, a family situation or anything that can traumatize them, be as supportive as you can. Do whatever you can to make them happy. Forget your issues, forget your arguments, forget that one time they made you sad and just be there for them. They will love you forever and respect you more if you forget yourself and help them come out of that dark phase smiling.

#6 Respect
Respect is the second most important part of a relationship after trust. There should be a great deal of respect between you two for each other. You should be supportive. You should respect the way they live, the friends they have, the decisions they make, as long as you're sure they're not doing anything wrong you should respect everything about them. No two people can be the same, don't try to be the same, it's fun when you're different. You get to learn more and more about each other everyday. Respect!

#5 Complete Trust Is Key
The most vital part of every relationship is the element of Trust. It can make or break any relationship within seconds. Trust is a very valuable jewel, once lost can never be brought back in the same way again. You love your partner because you trust them with all your life. They should do the same for you. Never tell someone you trust them if you don't. There is no better feeling in this world than to know that the person you love trusts you more than anything and they can do anything for you. Keep the trust alive.

#4 Be Each Other's Strength
When you love someone, you love them for who they are. You love their position in life and you do whatever you can to make their position stronger and better. Once you let the element of jealousy come in between you and your partner, you won't be able to make anyone grow into a better person. If they have a better job than you, be happy about it rather than being competitive. Listen to them, understand their problems, be open with them. Achieve your dreams in life with their help and make them achieve their goals.

#3 More Alone Time
All couples need sufficient alone-time for each other to get to know each other better. It may be fun hanging out with your friends along with your partner but it should be even more fun for you hanging out with your partner alone. Give them the time they deserve. Spend entire days doing what both of you love to do. It is also important not to talk about others during your alone-time, talk about each other.

#2 What Past?
We often let our past baggage take the best of our love. When you're with someone who keeps you very happy, forget the past. Don't ask them about their past if you trust them and don't talk about yours either. Once one of you starts digging in the past, a whole pandora's box will open up and you two will not be at peace until one of you gives up. Forget the past, live in the present and work on the future.

#1 Don't Fight Back During Arguments
It's one of the most destructive things to do during an argument - fighting back with all your power. During arguments, one of you needs to be "The calm one" and make the argument stop by either apologizing if it's your fault or by being funny or romantic but it is very wise to never fight back. Two angry people can never come to peace with each other without saying a lot of stuff they would later regret. If your partner is angry, do whatever you can to calm them down and control your anger, it's not going to be easy but it'll make them love you more.

White Peddle

Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender. The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant’s beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain. He said he would forgo the merchant’s debt if he could marry the daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.

The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag. The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag.If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender’s wife and her father’s debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father’s debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the merchant’s garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.

What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

“Oh, how clumsy of me,” she said. “But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked.” Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an advantageous one.

MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.

1. “How are you still single? You’re so great.”

2. “It’ll happen when you least expect it.”

3. “Don’t you ever get lonely?”

4. “Aren’t you worried you won’t be able to have kids?”

5. “Are you seeing anyone?”

6. “You should try online dating. My friend met their husband/wife that way.”

7. “They don’t deserve you.”

8. “You are such a catch.”

9. “Don’t worry you’ll find someone someday.”

10. “He’s just not ready for a serious commitment yet."

11. “One day when you’re married, you’ll wish you were single.”

12. “There are plenty of fish in the sea.”

13. “You’re just too picky.”

14. “Just don’t turn into some crazy cat lady.”

15. “She probably just lost your number.”

16. At a wedding: “You better get out there, they’re doing the bouquet toss.”

17. “You’re just too busy right now.”

18. “You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.”

19. In reference to your best friend: “Have you guys ever thought of dating?”

20. “I can’t wait to meet your future spouse, they are going to be amazing.”

21. “We’ll all be laughing about this someday.”

22. “You should let me set you up, I know the perfect person for you.”

23. “Don’t give up, it’ll happen.”

24. “You don’t need anyone.” DAMN RIGHT!

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked.

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.”

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

“How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.”

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I LOVE YOU” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”

Waiting for Farah at the Causeway Custom at Woodland. As I were waiting, I saw two ICA officer escort a malaysian out of there. I guess his passport went wrong. Anyway we went to Johor Bahru for an leisure outing. Went to Kenny Roger and paid RM79. Farah was kind of shock of the bill. As we were eating there is an insect and it scare Farah. It was a nice dinner and indeed a bloated one.

Went to Thai Odyssey for a massage and only RM51. We tried the back massage and I know she felt pain. She ask the messenger to use less strength. Normally I was surprise she wanna tried that as it might be painful for her. As we were sitting upright position, her hair, messy. They kept on asking her to lock her hand. But she respond, 'I'm scared'. I told the massanger that is her first time.

Here is the picture during dinner time before heading home.

Overdose

Just a 6 minutes video, huge of mass production to meet the demand of the current world population. There one thing that most of the society taking thing for granted. That is taking more thaan you need as result waste or unhealthy diet.

This video just to widen your perspective that this is what happening now. The demand is still increase at exponential rate.

The World Ain’t All Sunshine & Rainbows

Let me tell you something you already know.

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows.

It’s a very mean and nasty place,

and I don’t care how tough you are,

it will beat you to your knees and

keep you there permanently if you let it.

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life.

But it ain’t about how hard you hit.

It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward;

how much you can take and keep moving forward.

That’s how winning is done!

Now, if you know what you’re worth,

then go out and get what you’re worth.

But you gotta be willing to take the hits,

and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him,

or her, or anybody.

Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!

Problematic

The GST Voucher Problem.

I have not receive the letter, therefore not knowing am I eligible or not. Also I can't recall the Singpass Password until I have to go down to CPF Board. But I hope they credit into my bank account but when they day arrive, I did not receive my GST Credit voucher via the bank.

So went down to CPF to get the Singpass so that I would know if I'm eligible or not. Got it, and computer say, 'Yes! I'm Eligible'. I thought I need to join a long queue at Bishan CPF, but they have set a counter just for GST Voucher inquiry. But the system told that, they mail the cheque through my old address. That is Toa Payoh where as the apartment have been vacant.

They told me the cheque have been back to the sender. Lately on they require me to go down to UOB branch to change my address. Went to UOB branch, they told me is not their job. Therefore have to head down to ICA.

Aiya, so many swiss model cheese problem as one problem to another. Anyway all I got to do is to go down and investigate.

Gym Training

Kept on going to Yio Chu Kang and Pioneer gym. The Pioneer gym is the best as the trackmill machine have fan inbuild. How awesome is that! Even the cycling machine have the fan inbuild. Anyway at Pioneer, is one of the biggest gym in Singapore but the distance is great. Well if I want quality, sometime I need to go a greater distant just to get that quality. Kept on going to Yio Chu Kang gym, with my gym buddies Faz. He always kept on complain muscle pain. Well is good to have pain because all I know there is a progression. Wanted to gym the next day but we are lazy.

Sim City Of Singapore

My dearest reader from other country,if you do not know what or how Singapore is,

Here the video but in miniature model:

Love Never Fail

Love Is Patient

The candies that I gave you is a footprint I left you. Well I will wait for your respond patiently.

Since now you in my life, I will be patient for you to calm down, cry and rest on my shoulder.

Love Is Kind

I can remember you held my hand and tell me not to worry.

Assurance you gave me that you will never leave me.
Scared of discrimination from you, but you prove me wrong.

Indeed is a very kind gesture you did that, baby.

Love Doesn't Boast

Humble and is ok not to let the world know.

Just you and me is all I need baby.

Love Isn't Proud

We do not need to spend monetary,

To put the price on an item to show who and what we are.

Because it simply can't state the price of our love in materialistic.

Is you and all I need is you.

Love Protects

I was so shock that when I goes missing,

You were finding for me. I'm so sorry and I wont do again.

Whatever our bad time, we always there,

To protect each other from unexpected source of problem.

Love Doesn't Envy

It doesn;t matter what our flaw are.

Or what our strength are.

But by all means, I always wanna you to be happy.

Love Isn't Self Seeking

I remember you were sleeping peacefully.

I kiss your forehead, as a sign that sleep as peaceful

Because I'm always beside you.

Love Keeps No Record Of Wrong

Whatever the argument we been through,

Forget and move on.

Because I love you, and I wanna spend happy time with you.

The upset is a pain to progress our relationship.

Forget the past, enjoy the present, mound the future.

Love Always Trusts And Always Hope

The day I told you my secret is there something in you

That I trust you alot. Also reveal all my sensitive information

And soon gonna stay with you together. Because I know you wont leave me.

I hope that even after death, you would beside me.

Last time I hope that someone ideal parthner come to me,

And I didnt expect to be you.

Love Never Fails

No matter how much the challege and problem we face each other,

It never fail. Because love do not fail. And willing for one party to do anything

Not to make it fail.

1 Corinthians 13: 1-13

The Robbery

During a robbery in Guangzhou, China, the bank robber shouted to everyone in the bank: "Don't move. The money belongs to the State. Your life belongs to you."

Everyone in the bank laid down quietly. This is called "Mind Changing Concept” Changing the conventional way of thinking.

When a lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her: "Please be civilized! This is a robbery and not a rape!"

This is called "Being Professional” Focus only on what you are trained to do!

When the bank robbers returned home, the younger robber (MBA-trained) told the older robber (who has only completed Year 6 in primary school): "Big brother, let's count how much we got."

The older robber rebutted and said: "You are very stupid. There is so much money it will take us a long time to count. Tonight, the TV news will tell us how much we robbed from the bank!"

This is called "Experience.” Nowadays, experience is more important than paper qualifications!

After the robbers had left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor to call the police quickly. But the supervisor said to him: "Wait! Let us take out $10 million from the bank for ourselves and add it to the $70 million that we have previously embezzled from the bank”.

This is called "Swim with the tide.” Converting an unfavorable situation to your advantage!

The supervisor says: "It will be good if there is a robbery every month."

This is called "Killing Boredom.” Personal Happiness is more important than your job.

The next day, the TV news reported that $100 million was taken from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but they could only count $20 million. The robbers were very angry and complained: "We risked our lives and only took $20 million. The bank manager took $80 million with a snap of his fingers. It looks like it is better to be educated than to be a thief!"

This is called "Knowledge is worth as much as gold!"

The bank manager was smiling and happy because his losses in the share market are now covered by this robbery.

This is called "Seizing the opportunity.” Daring to take risks!

So who are the real robbers here?

That's You, Baby!

Thank You For Coming Into My Life.

Because The Love You Gave, Is Just Pure & Just Nice

I Love You & I Miss You

And I know this is always your favorite scene from Despicable Me 2.

1. “How are you still single? You’re so great.” 2. “It’ll happen when you least expect it.”

1. “How are you still single? You’re so great.”

2. “It’ll happen when you least expect it.”