To Love At All

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, not even to an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket — safe, dark, motionless, airless — it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. The alternative to tragedy, or at least to the risk of tragedy, is damnation. The only place outside of Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love is Hell.”

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Do Open Relationship Work?

You’re in a relationship with someone whom you love and can’t see yourself being without him or her, but sometimes your eye tends to wander. You come to the realization that your mundane routine needs a little spicing up. How do you approach this difficult topic? You can’t just blatantly ask your partner for this type of arrangement; it’s all in the presentation and delivery. You need to gauge your relationship and figure out the best way to broach the topic.

An open relationship needs to be mutual, meaning each person has the ability to engage in mental and/or physical affairs with another person. You can’t declare an open relationship without discussing it with your partner — that is called cheating. There is no black and white when it comes to this arrangement. There are many things that need to be discussed before it can actually begin.

Are there certain nights of the week reserved for your sidepiece? Are weekends off limits? Is it kiss and tell or don’t ask don’t tell? How much time can you spend with the other people? How many other partners can you have at once? As you can see, this agreement brings along a lot of uncertainty.

The pitfall of this type of arrangement is the jealousy factor. It does not matter that both people are allowed to see other people; jealousy sometimes can be unavoidable. It’s natural to become jealous of another person who has your partner’s attention.

Long distance couples are more prone to have this discussion than other types of couples. The distance between two people can and most often does create sexual frustration. To solve this problem, these people may look to other options, which include hooking up with other people, in hopes of preventing a breakup.

So many romances end because one partner cheats, so wouldn’t an open relationship be a smart idea? Of course there will always be those who are 100% monogamous and have no issue staying faithful, but for the rest of the people out there, what’s left for them?

Of course, the argument is if you don’t want to be in a relationship, then don’t be in one. Nothing is black and white and neither is this discussion. Sometimes you will have someone you love and want to be with, but then there are those instances where you need a little variety. If you are upfront and honest with your partner, then are you really doing anything wrong? And, honestly, who cares about anyone’s opinions outside of yours and your partner’s?

Your relationship should be gone about in a manner that satisfies you and if this is what it takes to have a great relationship, then more power to you. When you behave in a way that contradicts tradition, people will always have something to say. It’s important to ignore petty judgments because you don’t need others’ opinions to make you happy.

Everyone is different and therefore has different wants that need to be fulfilled. Through connecting with your sexuality, you discover a sense of self. From there, your awareness can grow. Enlightenment comes through practicing self-awareness. Intimate relationships, regardless if they are monogamous or not, are fueled by a desire to feel complete, alive and sexual.

Be considerate of your partners and always use protection. As we all know, the more partners you have, the higher your risk for contracting an STD is. Safe sex is a requirement, not an option in this situation. It is disrespectful to your partners not to have safe sex and it’s risky for your own health. Condoms reduce the spread of STDs, but only if they are used correctly. Remember these aren’t the only items needed for safe sex.

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10 Biggest Mistakes Made In Relationships

#10 Clinging Too Much
Everyone needs their own personal space. If you love your partner you should trust them enough to give them their space and not try to invade every second of their life. This isn't the case when you're married. Marriage is a blessing and after marriage you and your partner share the same life together. But when you're in a relationship, you can't suddenly take over their life unless it's a mutual decision. Don't make them feel suffocated and don't make them regret the decision of being with you.

#9 Being Jealous Of Each Other
Relationships should never have the element of jealousy involved. You love your partner, you are not supposed to be jealous if they have a better job than you or a better social circle than you. You are supposed to be their strength and make them bigger in life rather than complain about how you can't compete with them. It's not a competition. Your partner will do everything in their power to make you a stronger person and you should do the same.

#8 Listening To Others More Than Your Partner
Bringing a third person in the middle of your relationship won't always end well. If you are facing a problem with your partner and you start asking the world for help it will obviously create a lot of trust issues between you and your partner. Couples Therapy is different, they are trained professionals and their only job is to make things work between you two. But when it comes to friends, everyone will give you their own opinion and it might make your mind think in too many directions which leads to over-thinking. And we all know where over-thinking takes us.

#7 Leaving Arguments Unsolved
We've seen this happen a lot around us and it has happened to us as well. When an argument is left unsolved in the middle, it won't go away. It will keep growing and come out in the form of a huge fight which will eventually lead to break up. Whenever any problem arises, make sure you solve it then and there. If you forgive your partner's mistakes, forget their mistakes and never bring them up in future arguments, it will only mean you never forgave them in the first place.

#6 Taking It Too Easy
Some couples start off amazing and slowly lose the spark they had. It could be because they don't find each other as interesting as they did before, it could be because of someone else being in their mind, it could be because of a lot of reasons but it shouldn't happen in the first place. Keep the romance alive and be the same partner you were when you first fell in love with them. Keep the romance going and make the memories stronger.

#5 A Lot Of Giving And No Getting
I've seen a lot of relationships in which one of the two do as much as they can to make their partner happy while the partner forgets everything they did for them in the middle of every argument and every rocky phase. Relationships are all about give and take. If you don't cherish your partner for all the effort and time they spend on you, they won't be around for too long because someone else will make them feel appreciated. Start giving back, love them the way they love you or even more. Cherish them before it's too late.

#4 Not Letting Go Of The Past
Everyone has a past. It is wise to clear everything up even before getting into a relationship with someone to leave no room for doubts and assumptions later. Don't cling to your partner's past either, the past shouldn't matter to you. You love someone for who they are not the baggage they carry. If you start snooping on them, it will only make you see things you shouldn't have seen in the first place and it will break your partner's trust because it was the past. Live in the present and work for an amazing future.

#3 Assumptions
The word "assumption" actually makes me cringe. It is one of the scariest things to have in a relationship and it leads to nothing but a bad ending to a perfect story. Once you start assuming, you will make a habit of it and you will soon create an entire mountain of assumptions on your partner's shoulders. Stop assuming and start asking if there's anything you have doubts about. Relationships are built on trust, not assumptions. Just because they've made mistakes in the past doesn't mean you just assume they'll do it in the future.

#2 Faking Interests
When you love someone, you love them for who they are. You love each and every little thing they do because that's who they are. You try making them a better person by making their bad habits go away. But it doesn't mean you start pretending to like what they do just to make them smile. Faking your interests in them will only make matters worse for later. Tell them exactly how you feel about them, their social life, their friends, their family, because you don't fake in love if you mean it.

#1 Thinking Of Marriage As The Answer To Everything
Some couples tend to think marriage will end the issues they have brewing up between them. Marriage is one of the biggest moves in life and it changes lives. But it is not wise to take the step before knowing if it will last or not. Some couples tend to fight a lot, on a daily basis, and they think once they're married all of their problems will suddenly vanish. That's not the case, marry ONLY when you're sure of it and not just to save a dying relationship.

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8 Ways People Break Their Own Hearts

1. They choose safety instead.
Safe love is comfortable love, but we all know there are greater things. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with choosing safety, I’m just saying you’ll wake up one day realizing you robbed yourself of something extraordinary; something that was right in front of you all along.

2. They avoid the person they really love because they don’t want to get hurt again.
I am of the belief that the greatest loves we experience are the ones who do hurt us, the ones who meant enough that they have the ability to, the ones who uproot us and make us different, or just more ourselves than ever before. I believe that love is transformative, and that shying away from that is one of the greatest ways we sell ourselves short.

3. They close themselves off to the love they deserve.
Sometimes we meet people who are so absolutely wonderful that we can’t help but wonder why they would want anything to do with the likes of some ordinary person like us. But love is not a sport or a competition. There’s no hierarchy and there certainly isn’t any legitimate, but infamously perpetuated concept of “leagues:” the unwritten rules of who can and can’t be together.

4. They forget that the only love that really matters is what we have for ourselves.
Yeah, yeah, I’m sorry I had to go here, but there’s no way I could leave this out. That aforementioned brokenness that usually follows some sweeping passionate ecstatic bit of love is only the result of the fact that we needed someone else to fill us up. Something that, though challenging, we are capable of doing ourselves.

5. They fall into the trap of thinking that there will be nobody else who makes them feel the way that one person did.
When it comes to the bare end of things, the truth is that there are thousands of people in the world that you will be able to love, and whom will love you in return. You just haven’t met them. In fact, you run in circles around each other but stay within your lines, and so they never cross.

6. They get so caught up in the love they have that they neglect all the other wonderful things there are to enjoy.
Nothing should ever be your everything, unless you’re willing to take the risk of that leaving your life and not having anything.

7. They don’t love someone the way they should be loved.
Love is work. It’s dedication and time and commitment and we know these things are difficult in theory but we trick ourselves into believing we can maintain them, until something that honestly threatens them comes along. You are the one who will end up broken when you commit to the good and not the bad, and think that you’ve done the job right.

8. They rather their lives with excuses of why they shouldn’t choose love right now.
Look, people. It’s now or never. Enough with the “should be’s.” Just love who you love, and live on, and I was really close to saying “be yourself” until I realized I was quoting Macklemore. Anyway. The right love will come when you need it to, and it will help you fill the holes you’re worried won’t let you love someone. But the difference is, the right kind of love will help you fill them, it won’t do that for you. Let it, even though it’s scary, and even though you’re unsure. In the future, you’ll look back and realize you became better from the times you tried, and you’re still kicking yourself from the times you didn’t.

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10 Steps To A Healtier Relationship

#10 Expectations
We all have a keen habit of expecting a lot from our partners, which is wrong. We should expect as much as they can give us. Keeping a firm grasp on expectations and keeping them close to reality is what makes a relationship strong and makes your partner more comfortable with you and happier to be with you because you don't burden them with stuff he/she has no control over.

#9 Cuddle More
It's one of the best features of a relationship. Cuddle your partner every chance you get. We are going to write an entirely separate article on cuddling because it has a lot of benefits. Be more intimate with each other, cuddle them, hug them, kiss them, be as romantic as you can with them. True love knows no bounds.

#8 Heart To Heart
Every couple goes through arguments and fights. We can't always agree on everything, we are human. It is wise to have a heart to heart after every bad patch you two go through. Just sit somewhere quiet and talk about what happened. Don't go to your friends for help and don't let them go to their's. You are supposed to live a life together you should be able to fix problems using each other not everyone else in the world. Having a heart to heart conversation with your lover will guarantee a long-lasting and loving relationship.

#7 Be There In The Dark Times
Love isn't just about being there for each other when you're both happy, it's about being each other's support and strength when everything isn't going well. If your partner is going through a dark phase, a rough patch, a family situation or anything that can traumatize them, be as supportive as you can. Do whatever you can to make them happy. Forget your issues, forget your arguments, forget that one time they made you sad and just be there for them. They will love you forever and respect you more if you forget yourself and help them come out of that dark phase smiling.

#6 Respect
Respect is the second most important part of a relationship after trust. There should be a great deal of respect between you two for each other. You should be supportive. You should respect the way they live, the friends they have, the decisions they make, as long as you're sure they're not doing anything wrong you should respect everything about them. No two people can be the same, don't try to be the same, it's fun when you're different. You get to learn more and more about each other everyday. Respect!

#5 Complete Trust Is Key
The most vital part of every relationship is the element of Trust. It can make or break any relationship within seconds. Trust is a very valuable jewel, once lost can never be brought back in the same way again. You love your partner because you trust them with all your life. They should do the same for you. Never tell someone you trust them if you don't. There is no better feeling in this world than to know that the person you love trusts you more than anything and they can do anything for you. Keep the trust alive.

#4 Be Each Other's Strength
When you love someone, you love them for who they are. You love their position in life and you do whatever you can to make their position stronger and better. Once you let the element of jealousy come in between you and your partner, you won't be able to make anyone grow into a better person. If they have a better job than you, be happy about it rather than being competitive. Listen to them, understand their problems, be open with them. Achieve your dreams in life with their help and make them achieve their goals.

#3 More Alone Time
All couples need sufficient alone-time for each other to get to know each other better. It may be fun hanging out with your friends along with your partner but it should be even more fun for you hanging out with your partner alone. Give them the time they deserve. Spend entire days doing what both of you love to do. It is also important not to talk about others during your alone-time, talk about each other.

#2 What Past?
We often let our past baggage take the best of our love. When you're with someone who keeps you very happy, forget the past. Don't ask them about their past if you trust them and don't talk about yours either. Once one of you starts digging in the past, a whole pandora's box will open up and you two will not be at peace until one of you gives up. Forget the past, live in the present and work on the future.

#1 Don't Fight Back During Arguments
It's one of the most destructive things to do during an argument - fighting back with all your power. During arguments, one of you needs to be "The calm one" and make the argument stop by either apologizing if it's your fault or by being funny or romantic but it is very wise to never fight back. Two angry people can never come to peace with each other without saying a lot of stuff they would later regret. If your partner is angry, do whatever you can to calm them down and control your anger, it's not going to be easy but it'll make them love you more.

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White Peddle

Many hundreds of years ago in a small Italian town, a merchant had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to the moneylender. The moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the merchant’s beautiful daughter so he proposed a bargain. He said he would forgo the merchant’s debt if he could marry the daughter. Both the merchant and his daughter were horrified by the proposal.

The moneylender told them that he would put a black pebble and a white pebble into an empty bag. The girl would then have to pick one pebble from the bag.If she picked the black pebble, she would become the moneylender’s wife and her father’s debt would be forgiven. If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father’s debt would still be forgiven. But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the merchant’s garden. As they talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two black pebbles and put them into the bag. He then asked the girl to pick her pebble from the bag.

What would you have done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you have told her? Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag and expose the moneylender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order to save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

The above story is used with the hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral and logical thinking.

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

“Oh, how clumsy of me,” she said. “But never mind, if you look into the bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I picked.” Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had picked the white one. And since the moneylender dared not admit his dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into an advantageous one.

MORAL OF THE STORY: Most complex problems do have a solution, sometimes we have to think about them in a different way.

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11 Way To Be Unremarkably Average

 

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I Love You, Son

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.



That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked.

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.”

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

“How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.”

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I LOVE YOU” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”

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Overdose

Just a 6 minutes video, huge of mass production to meet the demand of the current world population. There one thing that most of the society taking thing for granted. That is taking more thaan you need as result waste or unhealthy diet. 

This video just to widen your perspective that this is what happening now. The demand is still increase at exponential rate.

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The World Ain’t All Sunshine & Rainbows

Let me tell you something you already know. 

The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. 

It’s a very mean and nasty place, 

and I don’t care how tough you are,

 it will beat you to your knees and 

keep you there permanently if you let it. 

You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. 

But it ain’t about how hard you hit. 

It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; 

how much you can take and keep moving forward. 

That’s how winning is done! 

Now, if you know what you’re worth, 

then go out and get what you’re worth. 

But you gotta be willing to take the hits, 

and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, 

or her, or anybody. 

Cowards do that and that ain’t you. You’re better than that!

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Love Never Fail

Love Is Patient

The candies that I gave you is a footprint I left you. Well I will wait for your respond patiently. 

Since now you in my life, I will be patient for you to calm down, cry and rest on my shoulder.

Love Is Kind

I can remember you held my hand and tell me not to worry.

Assurance you gave me that you will never leave me.
Scared of discrimination from you, but you prove me wrong.

Indeed is a very kind gesture you did that, baby.

Love Doesn't Boast

Humble and is ok not to let the world know.

Just you and me is all I need baby. 

Love Isn't Proud

We do not need to spend monetary,

To put the price on an item to show who and what we are.

Because it simply can't state the price of our love in materialistic.

Is you and all I need is you.

Love Protects

I was so shock that when I goes missing,

You were finding for me. I'm so sorry and I wont do again.

Whatever our bad time, we always there,

To protect each other from unexpected source of problem.

Love Doesn't Envy

It doesn;t matter what our flaw are.

Or what our strength are.

But by all means, I always wanna you to be happy.

Love Isn't Self Seeking

I remember you were sleeping peacefully.

I kiss your forehead, as a sign that sleep as peaceful 

Because I'm always beside you.

Love Keeps No Record Of Wrong

Whatever the argument we been through,

Forget and move on.

Because I love you, and I wanna spend happy time with you.

The upset is a pain to progress our relationship.

Forget the past, enjoy the present, mound the future.

Love Always Trusts And Always Hope

The day I told you my secret is there something in you 

That I trust you alot. Also reveal all my sensitive information

And soon gonna stay with you together. Because I know you wont leave me.

I hope that even after death, you would beside me.

Last time I hope that someone ideal parthner come to me,

And I didnt expect to be you.

Love Never Fails

No matter how much the challege and problem we face each other,

It never fail. Because love do not fail. And willing for one party to do anything

Not to make it fail.

1 Corinthians 13: 1-13

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The Farmer

There was a farmer in Africa who was happy and content. He was happy because he was content. He was content because he was happy. One day a wise man came to him and told him about the glory of diamonds and the power that goes along with them. The wise man said, “If you had a diamond the size of your thumb, you could have your own city. If you had a diamond the size of your fist, you could probably own your own country.” And then he went away.

That night the farmer couldn’t sleep. He was unhappy and he was discontent. He was unhappy because he was discontent and discontent because he was unhappy. The next morning he made arrangements to sell off his farm, took care of his family and went in search of diamonds.

He looked all over Africa and couldn’t find any. He looked all through Europe and couldn’t find any. When he got to Spain, he was emotionally, physically and financially broke. He got so disheartened that he threw himself into the Barcelona River and committed suicide.

Back home, the person who had bought his farm was watering the camels at a stream that ran through the farm. Across the stream, the rays of the morning sun hit a stone and made it sparkle like a rainbow. He thought it would look good on the mantle piece. He picked up the stone and put it in the living room. That afternoon the wise man came and saw the stone sparkling. He asked, “Is Hafiz back?” The new owner said, “No, why do you ask?” The wise man said, “Because that is a diamond. I recognize one when I see one.”

The man said, no, that’s just a stone I picked up from the stream. Come, I’ll show you. There are many more.” They went and picked some samples and sent them for analysis. Sure enough, the stones were diamonds. They found that the farm was indeed covered with acres and acres of diamonds.

When our attitude is right, we realize that we are all walking on acres and acres of diamonds. Opportunity is always under our feet. We don’t have to go anywhere. All we need to do is recognize it.

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The Experience Equation

Here are the law that relate to convenience against time to resolve an issue or efficient and practical for connivence sake.

The more money you spend the less time you waste.

The less money you spend the more time you waste.

Convenience = Money X Time

As I always belief that there are 2 symptom that you fell in love rather than "crush" or "like"

Love make you blind - You saw that special person that no one else seen it.

Love make you do foolish thing - You willing to go an mire than extra kilometer for that person. It is something that scientist till now have no concrete proof as why human behave that way till in the extend of one willing to die for another partner.

Lastly, the equation of love.

In every ideal/ perfection in love via relationship, one must accept in another party imperfectness and another party accept your imperfectness therefore you would have a perfectness in relationship.

(-1)x(-1)=1

This are the relation law of 'Experience' Against 'No. Of Trail'.

Each time you fail, you learn, prevent and most important think and execute the next step. Repeat this step until you reach goal.

The minority thinking will lead to huge success. Minority refer to impossible, insane idea or people simply think that your idea is impossible.

Above the picture shown, is because of their passion, confident and believe as result lead them to what they succeed today.

So the more no. of Trail process will lead to much more experience that is knowledge.

Experience Or Success = No. Of Trail Process X Prior Knowledge

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Johor 2D1N

Finally I have pamper myself in my vacation and soon back to work. But the problem when come to work is I don't really know where to start my career in which particular field. I realize that in the aviation industrial, the money come in slow. In the retail service line, the money come in mono and little incentive. The hotel line look idealistic but I have no experience.

Anyway I should stop whining and let you know what I have done and how I pamper myself in Johor Bahru recently.

This is the west wing block, my hotel room view.

This is the bathroom

This is the bedroom.

Anyway the breakfast was great and the next day simply checkout and hang around at The Coffee Bean & Tea Leaf until evening. Again I think I'm addicted to coffee.

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Emotion Coaster

Life is indeed up and down.

Through argument, we argue and shed tears

Through insane, we joke and tease each other

Through romance, a simple stare, make a huge difference

Through property, a simple moment give me an awe based on your action

Through cuteness, we just wanna pinch each other cheek

Through kinky, we try to kinky in public

Through significant, we try to express and expression in foam of tangible

Through openness, we have no phobia and wanna be concern and care

Through conflict, we negotiate and try to understand each other

Imagine this, a piano have a set of white and black key.

The white key represent the good time.
The black key represent the bad time.

But to play a beautiful song on the set of key in piano, it need both keys.

It the same thing applied in life and love.

Isn't amazing the song it can be played in the beautiful instrument.

So don't worry dear, that it is ok to have bad and good memories in the relationship.

Because now the love would be stronger, progressive and ideal for what I want and needed.

Yur Love
Jason

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Again With Your Johor Trip

My favorite route is recently this, From bugis all the way toward JB. I reach there not more than 45 min journey plus iris convenience for me because I lived near bugis. Here is my bus ticket that is only $2.40.

Btw the above picture, it seem there is a haze currently.

Is just a short trip as enjoy the J Co on City Square but is so annoying as I can't get the WiFi. But here are the 2 donut and a drink. Can you guess what it was?

Went to watch movie at 7.15pm and only cost about RM13. It was another nice trip and a nice movie that is Man of Steel.

I have that similar dream too.

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Hydropump

Again, another last minute outing. Nanda have surprise me around 6pm as I never expected him to drop by. But 3 hrs earlier, I was craving for movie marathon. Watch The Devil Wear Prada and Spirited Away. Awesome movie but the Marina Bay Sand water show was even much more awesome.

Like the bubble effect. Something new and unique.

The lighting effect

The water dance.

Surprise Wabul at Burberry store as been long time meet him. Just love to disturb him. Later went to Al-Armeen with Farah to makan. Some boneless dark green chicken look like radiation waste and cheese nan. It was nice. And simply end the day.

Reflection Journal

Look at all those success people. They have the insane minority thought that is even it took to try forever. Many think is a waste of time but some is ok to fail as it was part of the plan. Remember, failure is the first step toward success and it also goes to the minority. Whereas the minority have insanity, wise risk and full of excitement and passion toward their goal. Always think different from the rest and also don,t be afraid. ;)

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Little Prince

Here's something that'll warm your heart in a week that needs more heartwarming stories: Photographer Matej Peljhan photographed a boy named Luka who suffers from muscular dystrophy doing things he dreams about doing but his body won't allow him to. Like playing basketball or skateboarding or diving. It's beautiful.


Matej Peljhan's photo series of Luka is called "The Little Prince" and it's created by transforming the ground into an imaginative playground for Luka. Luka acts out the motions while lying on the ground and Peljhan captures him in action to create an awesome picture.


The photo series serves as a reminder of the debilitating nature of muscular dystrophy but should also help us remember how precious life is and to appreciate what we have. If Luka can, we all can.

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Love Story

Once upon a time all feelings and emotions went to a coastal island for a vacation. According to their nature, each was having a good time. Suddenly, a warning of an impending storm was announced and everyone was advised to evacuate the island.


The announcement caused sudden panic. All rushed to their boats. Even damaged boats were quickly repaired and commissioned for duty.


Yet, Love did not wish to flee quickly. There was so much to do. But as the clouds darkened, Love realised it was time to leave. Alas, there were no boats to spare. Love looked around with hope.


Just then Prosperity passed by in a luxurious boat. Love shouted, “Prosperity, could you please take me in your boat?”


“No,” replied Prosperity, “my boat is full of precious possessions, gold and silver. There is no place for you.”


A little later Vanity came by in a beautiful boat. Again Love shouted, “Could you help me, Vanity? I am stranded and need a lift. Please take me with you.”


Vanity responded haughtily, “No, I cannot take you with me. My boat will get soiled with your muddy feet.”


Sorrow passed by after some time. Again, Love asked for help. But it was to no avail. “No, I cannot take you with me. I am so sad. I want to be by myself.”


When Happiness passed by a few minutes later, Love again called for help. But Happiness was so happy that it did not look around, hardly concerned about anyone.


Love was growing restless and dejected. Just then somebody called out, “Come Love, I will take you with me.” Love did not know who was being so magnanimous, but jumped on to the boat, greatly relieved that she would reach a safe place.


On getting off the boat, Love met Knowledge. Puzzled, Love inquired, “Knowledge, do you know who so generously gave me a lift just when no one else wished to help?”


Knowledge smiled, “Oh, that was Time.”


“And why would Time stop to pick me and take me to safety?” Love wondered.


Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and replied, “Because only Time knows your true greatness and what you are capable of. Only Love can bring peace and great happiness in this world.”


“The important message is that when we are prosperous, we overlook love. When we feel important, we forget love. Even in happiness and sorrow we forget love.


Only with time do we realize the IMPORTANCE OF LOVE. Why wait that long? Why not make love a part of your life today?”

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Things That You Die, Die That You Must Tell Yourself Today

People often give up the simplest obstacle whereas it can be resolve in the simplest way that you never thought of. Well here is what I am gonna tell you:

I Am Fighting Hard For The Things I Want MOST.

The longer you have to wait for something, the more you will appreciate it when it finally arrives. Most great things don't come easy, but they are WORTH waiting for and fighting for.

I Am Taking Action NOW

Many great things can be done in A DAY if you don't always make that day tomorrow.

I Am Focusing On The Next Positive Step

The future holds NOTHING but endless potential. There are far, far better things AHEAD  than any we leave behind.

I Am PROUD To Wear My TRUTH

How you see yourself means everything. To be beautiful means to live CONFIDENTLY in your own skin.

I Have A Lot To SMILE About

Happiness is not a result of getting something you don't have, but rather of RECOGNIZING and APPRECIATING what you do have.

I Am Making The BEST Of It

Everything you go through GROWS you. Amazing things CAN and DO happen when you least expect them.

I am LETTING GO Of Yesterday's Stress

Leave behind the stress, the drama and the worries. Lay this day to rest. Tomorrow is about HOPE, new POSSIBILITIES, and the OPPORTUNITY to make a better day.

There Is Enough Time Today To Do Something I LOVE

You will find happiness in doing the THING you love to do.

I Am PRICELESS In Someone's Eyes

Focus on those who LOVE and ACCEPT you for who you are, and shower them with the love and kindness they DESERVE. Always CHERISH the people who saw you when you were invisible to everyone else.

It's NOT Too Late

No matter who you are, no matter what you DID, no matter where you've come from, you can always CHANGE and become a BETTER version of yourself.

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