We all have a keen habit of expecting a lot from our partners, which is wrong. We should expect as much as they can give us. Keeping a firm grasp on expectations and keeping them close to reality is what makes a relationship strong and makes your partner more comfortable with you and happier to be with you because you don't burden them with stuff he/she has no control over.
#9 Cuddle More
It's one of the best features of a relationship. Cuddle your partner every chance you get. We are going to write an entirely separate article on cuddling because it has a lot of benefits. Be more intimate with each other, cuddle them, hug them, kiss them, be as romantic as you can with them. True love knows no bounds.
#8 Heart To Heart
Every couple goes through arguments and fights. We can't always agree on everything, we are human. It is wise to have a heart to heart after every bad patch you two go through. Just sit somewhere quiet and talk about what happened. Don't go to your friends for help and don't let them go to their's. You are supposed to live a life together you should be able to fix problems using each other not everyone else in the world. Having a heart to heart conversation with your lover will guarantee a long-lasting and loving relationship.
#7 Be There In The Dark Times
Love isn't just about being there for each other when you're both happy, it's about being each other's support and strength when everything isn't going well. If your partner is going through a dark phase, a rough patch, a family situation or anything that can traumatize them, be as supportive as you can. Do whatever you can to make them happy. Forget your issues, forget your arguments, forget that one time they made you sad and just be there for them. They will love you forever and respect you more if you forget yourself and help them come out of that dark phase smiling.
#6 Respect
Respect is the second most important part of a relationship after trust. There should be a great deal of respect between you two for each other. You should be supportive. You should respect the way they live, the friends they have, the decisions they make, as long as you're sure they're not doing anything wrong you should respect everything about them. No two people can be the same, don't try to be the same, it's fun when you're different. You get to learn more and more about each other everyday. Respect!
#5 Complete Trust Is Key
The most vital part of every relationship is the element of Trust. It can make or break any relationship within seconds. Trust is a very valuable jewel, once lost can never be brought back in the same way again. You love your partner because you trust them with all your life. They should do the same for you. Never tell someone you trust them if you don't. There is no better feeling in this world than to know that the person you love trusts you more than anything and they can do anything for you. Keep the trust alive.
#4 Be Each Other's Strength
When you love someone, you love them for who they are. You love their position in life and you do whatever you can to make their position stronger and better. Once you let the element of jealousy come in between you and your partner, you won't be able to make anyone grow into a better person. If they have a better job than you, be happy about it rather than being competitive. Listen to them, understand their problems, be open with them. Achieve your dreams in life with their help and make them achieve their goals.
#3 More Alone Time
All couples need sufficient alone-time for each other to get to know each other better. It may be fun hanging out with your friends along with your partner but it should be even more fun for you hanging out with your partner alone. Give them the time they deserve. Spend entire days doing what both of you love to do. It is also important not to talk about others during your alone-time, talk about each other.
#2 What Past?
We often let our past baggage take the best of our love. When you're with someone who keeps you very happy, forget the past. Don't ask them about their past if you trust them and don't talk about yours either. Once one of you starts digging in the past, a whole pandora's box will open up and you two will not be at peace until one of you gives up. Forget the past, live in the present and work on the future.
#1 Don't Fight Back During Arguments
It's one of the most destructive things to do during an argument - fighting back with all your power. During arguments, one of you needs to be "The calm one" and make the argument stop by either apologizing if it's your fault or by being funny or romantic but it is very wise to never fight back. Two angry people can never come to peace with each other without saying a lot of stuff they would later regret. If your partner is angry, do whatever you can to calm them down and control your anger, it's not going to be easy but it'll make them love you more.
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