Words For Teenagers

I like this post and it was interesting on what John Tapene say to those teens. Love his point of view.

Northland College principal John Tapene has offered the following words from a judge who regularly deals with youth. "Always we hear the cry from teenagers, 'what can we do, where can we go?'

"My answer is this:

Go home, mow the lawn, wash the windows, learn to cook, build a raft, get a job, visit the sick, study your lessons and after you've finished, read a book. Your town does not own you recreational facilities and your parents do not own fun.

"The world does not own you a living, you own the world something. You own it your time, energy and talent so that no one will be at war, in sickness and lonely again.

In other words grow up, stop begin a cry baby, get out of your dream world and develop a backbone not a wishbone. Start behaving like a responsible person. You are important and you are needed. It's too late to sit around and wait for somebody to do something someday. Someday is now and that somebody is you!"

Credit and my role model of his phase of what he did advise to me as a teenager,
John Tapene

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Blue Night

Pub hoping.
Bar hoping
In Club dance, and I awake the next day no idea where I'm.

I will never get drunk again.
And I don't wanna get high again.

Is just simply horrible.

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Last Saturday Night

I can't recall when I met my childhood friend but I always remember that meeting them would produce an insane, fun and teasing memories. I am glad that we organize and it was indeed a last minutes plan but lead to an unexpected, crazy night.

We went to Cineleisure, Orchard Road to have our supper. But as usual Miss Wilsen kept on begin late so mean time, let me introduce all the beloved and wonderful people.

                                     Nanda & Shikin                                             Nuri & Jason

                                              From L to R: Shikin, Doreen, Aisha & Nuri

The equation of my childhood friend is always the ethnicity of Thai mixture with something. So the girls are Thai mix with Malay. Like my sister, Doreen and me is mixture of Thai mix with Eurasian. So finally we went to have supper to have a cup of tea with never-a-miss, up to date plus gossip session.

We were late and heading to club as getting a free entrance before 2200. But is already 2135 and were rushing down. But I kept on forcing them to took a photo.

We have reached the scene and I was gonna met my drinking buddies and a beloved friend of mine. Here afew people I wanna introduce again:

                                L To R : Wilsen, Shay (A great personal friend of mine) & Jason

                           My inspiration friend, Mr Nor                    My Self Esteem Boost, Chandra

                My Beloved and close brother, Mr Wabul      My dearest sister, Mrs Vivian (To Shay)

Here afew picture we drank, gossip, teaser, dancer, cam whore and laughter for the last 2012 moment of the day.

 

I am so glad I met this wonderful people, who really make my day. Yes, I might be poverty, but in exchange, God have give this wonderful in exchange of richness. No wonder many have said I am lucky to have a friend that been bond more than 10 years who are loyal to me, giving me countless laugh, begin there each other in the lowest time, talking on the phone for an hour (till the extend my mum complain to me my phone bill) and going through the hardest time together.

Thanks for begin there for me and wish you a happy New Year Eve.

Btw, why am I not sleeping as I need to be awake at 0600.

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Why We Shout In Anger

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled and asked:

“Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?”

His disciples thought for a while before one of them answered, “Because we lose our calm, hence we shout.”

“But why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner,” said the saint.

His disciples gave some other answers but none were satisfactory.

Finally the saint explained,

“When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

“What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small.”The saint continued, “When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper, and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.”

He looked at his disciples and said,

“So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant. Do not say words that distance each other more. Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.”

Credit By - http://shiroiluke.wordpress.com/ - Luke

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Pedestrian At Wee Hours

It was 0220 and I was wondering what am I doing at this place and what do I expect from it. Am I here to accompany a friend of mine? Wishing for a soulmate from this environment? Confuse on what I seek?

As I were sitting here, my mind went wandering around, daydream and sometime a source of courage. To approach or socialize which I don't if they wanna socialize. Or they seek is "The 3 F Rules". I starting to believe evolution because after all I am seeing human behave like an animal.

They tend to seek and hunt where no love is found or never found in this environment.

Decide to be journalist for this experience where the pedestrian is wandering around the park at 0332 in the wee hours of morning.

To analyze and further study in small detail of this scenario.

Right now, my friend have not return and I still wonder where it goes.

The same old fellow cycle here. A singlet who is mature passing by 3 to 4 time. Ignoring and blogging. Body language clearly send a signal to their mentality mind that is "Not Interested"

Wonder where am I and what place is that and what would a guy like me journal at this hours in this environment?

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